A Little Pre-Marriage Advice (for women)

Just a heads up...this is a bit detailed. And this is only my experience!
Hey Girlie...
I just wanted to give you a little pre-wedding and post-wedding advice.
One week before the wedding:
First, start now drinking lots of water. Stay hydrated, and if you can tolerate bananas, eat some. Because of all the walking around and such you will be doing, leg cramps are a REAL possibility on the wedding night. (trust me) And even the night before!
After the honeymoon:
Second, know the signs of a UTI, this infection, when caught early can be manageable. However, when women start having a lot of sex, a UTI becomes a real possibility too! If it is not caught early enough, it can become VERY dangerous. (again, trust me) No one told me this stuff and I just thought I was feeling puny. Turns out I was almost septic with a major kidney infection. All from having sex!
For Life:
Third, remember that in marriage NOTHING is really a big deal. If it is, you will know it. If your husband does not put his socks in the hamper, it's not a big deal. Just pick them up, praise God for a chance to serve your husband, and let it go. The little things can destroy a marriage if you let them. I have heard myself say many times , "It's not a big deal" and then moved on.
Being married is the most amazing gift we are given (apart from Jesus) and it is to be cherished. But remember this: Marriage is not intended to make you happy. It is intended to make you HOLY. Every day you will have opportunities to serve and love, to forgive and extend grace like Christ. Through marriage you will be conformed to the likeness of Christ. If there is a trial, ask yourself, "How can this make me holy". Happiness is fleeting, and holiness is something worth chasing!

I love you my sweet sister, and I rejoice with you this week.
Blessings,
Kim